Some fall in love with someone here, some enjoy working here, some enjoy the Danish hygge culture (cozy), and some just really like rugbrød (the Danish dark bread). The reasons don’t really matter, the fact is that a lot of people really enjoying living here in Denmark.
Unfortunately, it’s not that easy for people who’re not from a European country to stay here in Denmark. I don’t want to repeat the rules, as you can find the general information on the Danish integration ministry’s website. www.nyidanmark.dk But in general, no matter what’s your visa type, you need to have it for 7 years to be able to apply the permanent residence permit.
During the last decade Denmark has earned a reputation of tough and restrictive immigration policies, there are some who take pride in this, and others who find it deeply shameful. As a foreigner who has lived here for 7 years, my guess is that the Danish government decided to focus on the quality of immigrants.
But it deeply frustrates me that I find myself marginalized to some extent by my inability to influence the areas which affect me the most, such as immigration law.
Maybe you know about last year’s scandal in the Danish integration ministry. For those who don’t, I will tell you the story very briefly now. It turned out that the Danish integration ministry has lied or misinformed the general public about the immigration law for Danes who married foreigners.
The integration ministry, and the Danish government in general, has claimed that all applicants for family visas are required to live up to a long list of specific requirements in order the qualify. The most controversial of these requirements are the so-called 24 years rule, and the attachment requirement. For those EU citizens “unfortunate enough” to fall in love with a non-EU citizen the only way to circumvent these rules is to apply for a family reunification visa based on the EU laws of free movement for laborers.
Since instituting the strict immigration laws, the Danish government has repeatedly claimed that a stay of perhaps several years in another EU country such as Germany and Sweden was required to utilize the EU labor laws.
As a result those whom had the misfortune of falling for one of those men or women with strange names, funny sounding languages and oddly colored passports had to become “refugees of love”, uprooting themselves and their lives to move to Malmø, North Germany, or in some cases much further away. This may not sound like a big deal, but for many this meant quickly selling their homes and quitting their jobs, and even giving up their voting rights (as Danish citizens lose the right to vote after an extended stay abroad), in order to set up a life abroad which would be recognized as authentic by the Danish government.
Imagine how these people felt when they found out that the Danish government had been lying to them all along, that the Danish government knew, (and had known for quite a while) that all that was required in order to qualify under the EU labour law was a period of work abroad of perhaps two weeks part-time employment, while living in a rented flat.
I would have felt angry. Angry for being lied to, but perhaps more angry about all the confusion and uncertainty that the lies caused. Unnecessary confusion and uncertainty about what the future would hold, whether or not I would be able to start a family with my spouse, if I would be able to go back to my life in Denmark, or if I would have to remain a refugee of love.
I find it amazing that the Danish government actually did this, willingly marginalized a small group of Danes, just because they fell for the “wrong” person.
These Danes more than most understand what it’s like to be a foreigner in Denmark
How there always seems to be another thing to worry about.
Uncertainty about what the future holds for you, questions like if you will be able to stay here in Denmark, or you will have to uproot and move somewhere else.
Confusion about what your rights are, if you might have to leave the country if you get pregnant, if going back to see your family might worsen your chances of getting a visa in the future, and what the best course of action for improving your chances might be.
I understand the need for rules, but I sometimes wish that Danes would just open up their hearts and accept us for who we are, for it is truly a sad thing when people are forced to become refugees of love.
By Li Yuan Wu • October 23, 2009
Categories: Confusion, Danish immigation law, Malmø, Uncertainty
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